by Snowball »
13 Nov 2012 22:06
WHY is it "politically correct" to accept heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality?
Social mores evolve, that's true and once, if forums like this had been possible back then,
the "very idea" that a footballer "might be a poof or a bender" would have caused
a strong, negative, probably ridiculing, or "disgusted" reaction
But the world is a different place these days. Not everyone's knuckles still drag in the dirt.
I'm straight, my younger brother is gay. He came out (to me) 37 years ago, but couldn't come out
to my parents, because, back then, (he presumed) they would have been horrified.
I supported him but I was far happier when, eventually, after my parents died, he came out to the rest of my siblings
"Coming out" and its ramifications is complex. Yes, we have no right to know either way, and yes, an individual's
sexuality is his/her own business, but, in the case of homosexual males in particular, especially those with
"street cred" (film stars, sports stars, MPs perhaps) the issue has a deeper importance.
Clearly, homosexual soccer stars keep their homosexuality secret (or private) for fear of backlash
but they, by coming out, could do wonders for removing the "stigma" of being gay (as some closet gays might see it)
PLEASE NOTE I am not saying there IS a stigma, merely that some people may perceive it that way.
Imagine just 20 Premiership footballers came out in one weekend of news.
There would be a few jokes from knuckle-draggers, but very soon after there would be hundreds more
self-outings, and equality and decency would take a huge step forward.
One day sexuality will probably not concern us, and that's how it should be, but to pretend
it doesn't now, is simply not true.
I have no idea how many, but I feel sure there are still suicides by gay guys who simply
can't come out or face "the shame". There should be no shame, of course. We don't choose
our sexuality. But celebrities coming out takes us further down the road to tolerance and
acceptance, and eventually to a point where we don't need to tolerate or accept, it's just an irrelevance