Playing on the same side? The last taboo

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by On High » 12 Nov 2012 17:33

Rumpole I'm not entirely sure why this is being called as a spoof.


It is possibly being called a spoof because Starfers has lit the blue touch paper and retreated with no further comment...

And for the record, like pretty much everyone else who has responded, I couldn't care less about players personal lives as long as they give 100% on the pitch and don't bring the club into disrepute off it.

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Para Handy » 12 Nov 2012 21:46

TheSiege Many of us, apparently, are already prepared to sell their past, their Religion and their Country down the river!


You'd be quite entertaining I guess, if you're the sort of person that likes watching car crashes. I'm not quite sure where your statement sits in the context of the thread but I'm guessing I'm going to be LOL'ing a lot whilst you try to explain it.

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by akranes » 12 Nov 2012 22:49

So... Shane Long's gay.
YES! Anyways.... v

I am good with this, it is about time we get over any stigma with being gay. You are what you are...

URZ!

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by RobRoyal » 12 Nov 2012 22:53

TheSiege Many of us, apparently, are already prepared to sell their past, their Religion and their Country down the river!


1) the past: tradition isn't, on it's own, good enough reason to preserve something.
2) I'm not actually religious. This is because truth claims made by religions are generally either trite or false, and the moral teachings of the world's major religions are - I'll be generous - patchy in quality.
3) I don't believe that moral goodness lies in supporting my country right or wrong (as it happens, of course, we are quite a progressive and liberal country, so I'm not sure what you think you're referring to).

Other amusing idiocies in your post included (but were not limited to):

1) describing as "political correctness" the position that people should be allowed to oxf*rd whichever consenting adults they like.
2) your confusion over terms for left-wing economics (socialism) with those for left-wing ethics (liberalism).
3) your strange belief that homosexuality is other than the norm, despite overwhelming contrary evidence from human history and the animal kingdom.

But at least now I believe that you are 60, not 15, so well done there.

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Ian Royal » 13 Nov 2012 00:43

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TheSiege Many of us, apparently, are already prepared to sell their past, their Religion and their Country down the river!


1) the past: tradition isn't, on it's own, good enough reason to preserve something.
2) I'm not actually religious. This is because truth claims made by religions are generally either trite or false, and the moral teachings of the world's major religions are - I'll be generous - patchy in quality.
3) I don't believe that moral goodness lies in supporting my country right or wrong (as it happens, of course, we are quite a progressive and liberal country, so I'm not sure what you think you're referring to).

Other amusing idiocies in your post included (but were not limited to):

1) describing as "political correctness" the position that people should be allowed to oxf*rd whichever consenting adults they like.
2) your confusion over terms for left-wing economics (socialism) with those for left-wing ethics (liberalism).
3) your strange belief that homosexuality is other than the norm, despite overwhelming contrary evidence from human history and the animal kingdom.

But at least now I believe that you are 60, not 15, so well done there.

I think that one sentence enlightens an awful lot about The Siege.

I'll admit to be quite curious as to who is gay in our squad, but only because it's a mystery. But not in the least bit fussed about there being gay, openly or otherwise, players here. I'd be quite proud if Reading players were amongst those who took the first steps in being openly gay in football. Private life is private, but that doesn't mean all trace of it needs to be, or should be, kept secret.

Player's partners are in the media and involved in the charitable side frequently. No reason why male partners shouldn't be just as openly involved as well.


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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by MouldyRoyal » 13 Nov 2012 09:48

It must be awful being TheSeige, being terrified of anything remotely different from him be they atheists, liberals, "foreign criminals", local criminals, and worst of all "the Gays"!

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Starfish » 13 Nov 2012 15:10

Thanks to everyone for their feedback - it has made for interesting reading.

One or two things I should probably add - I am certainly not a gay campaigner (and am bi- rather than simply homo-sexual). I am involved in this project in that I have presented a few podium discussions about the subject and have been asked to help out (linguistically) with UK & Ireland contacts. Also, apologies if people took my 'coming clean' comment poorly. It's actually an expression that is used in some gay circles and should not be perceived at all negatively. It proves to me, once again, that I shouldn't dabble in street language. :wink:

Anyway, thanks again.

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by melonhead » 13 Nov 2012 15:25

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TheSiege Many of us, apparently, are already prepared to sell their past, their Religion and their Country down the river!


1) the past: tradition isn't, on it's own, good enough reason to preserve something.
2) I'm not actually religious. This is because truth claims made by religions are generally either trite or false, and the moral teachings of the world's major religions are - I'll be generous - patchy in quality.
3) I don't believe that moral goodness lies in supporting my country right or wrong (as it happens, of course, we are quite a progressive and liberal country, so I'm not sure what you think you're referring to).

Other amusing idiocies in your post included (but were not limited to):

1) describing as "political correctness" the position that people should be allowed to oxf*rd whichever consenting adults they like.
2) your confusion over terms for left-wing economics (socialism) with those for left-wing ethics (liberalism).
3) your strange belief that homosexuality is other than the norm, despite overwhelming contrary evidence from human history and the animal kingdom.

But at least now I believe that you are 60, not 15, so well done there.


good riposte

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by melonhead » 13 Nov 2012 15:32

I grew up in a land where as a Primary school pupil I could walk six miles home from School without ending up in a body-bag!



and you still can-statistics show that child abduction and murder hasnt increased in that time, merely that the media makes you aware of it more.people stop thjeir kids walking home because of the fear of crime, rather than the reality

The Politically-correct society we now live in is far,far from my youth. England is a dumping ground for the trailer-trash of the known Universe - all here to make themselves wealthy at our expense. Every green field is being built on to provide houses for the huge influx of foreign Criminals who have arrived and require luxury



wtf?!
have you ever driven/railed across or flown over this country?
its half empty!


lol at the rest- its not a dumping ground. we have no more or less foreign criminals than any other society, and id wager that the percentage of criminality was actually smaller among new immigrants than amongs the indigenous/long term settled trash.
people come here because we are tolerant, and progressive, as demoinstrated by this thread, and its that that makes me most proud of this country. not history.


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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Ian Royal » 13 Nov 2012 20:41

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MouldyRoyal It must be awful being TheSeige, being terrified of anything remotely different from him be they atheists, liberals, "foreign criminals", local criminals, and worst of all "the Gays"!


Nothing terrifies me except my Childrens futures. Growing up and trying to have a life in an England that is rapidly becoming a third-world country because people like you have absolutely no sense of National identity. When you are sacked so that Poles or Ukrainians can be employed far more cheaply, tell me how good it feels! When your bank account is emptied by Nigerian fraudsters, please tell us all how happy you are!

The above were widely-known factual examples but, to enlighten you all, they do not refer to my personal experience.

LMFAO! :lol: :lol:

I'm terribly sorry you have to walk 5 miles every day for two buckets of dirty water to live on, don't have enough food and see the vast majority of any tax you pay go directly into the pocket of corrupt officials who provide you with no services.

You sir, are an ignorant, racist buffoon.

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Man Friday » 13 Nov 2012 21:00

melonhead have you ever driven/railed across or flown over this country?
its half empty!

Thank f88k for that. There's enough of this country concreted over. Imagine what it would be like if it was completely concreted over. In other words, imagine what life will be like in say 100 years' time. There will be history, not nature, programmes on tigers, etc. Thank Christ I won't be around to see it. Mind you, there will probably have been a nuclear war by then wiping out most, if not all, of the world's human population along with all other creatures. The Ruskies in the Cold War will have nothing on the religious fundamentalists once they get their hands on nuclear weapons...

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by RobRoyal » 13 Nov 2012 21:00

TheSiege It is good to be able to say that you have come up trumps over one of the previous seven assertions. You are right, I am 60. The rest, as usual, is finely-manicured manure! And you are going to actually say something when (by which I mean stand up and state YOUR view)? I thought not.


That's quite a bizarre response considering that I've made absolutely clear my views on at least 4 subjects in the post you've just read. But I'll try again: my view is that people who find in a thread like this one evidence of 'political correctness,' or find it relevant to reply with reference to a 'socialist' thought police, or claim not to be homophobic and yet descend on a thread about openly gay footballers and decry our lack of thought for 'the past, religion and our country', are deeply, hopelessly confused.

My view is that in a perfect world there would be no need for people to takr a stand against the persecution of or intolerance towards minority groups, but we don't live in a perfect world, and so homophobia needs to be challenged and campaigns promoting tolerance and acceptance need to be supported. My view is that you are a white man who has seldom felt part of a group subject to prejudice and intolerance, and that's why you interpret a campaign like this one as just a bunch a fags trying to dangle their sweaty balls in your face. Whereas the rest of us can see it's just some people who want to be no longer burdened by having a secret that, were it exposed, might well ruin their careers.

Have you got a sense of my view yet?

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Man Friday » 13 Nov 2012 21:13

I 'give a damn' but not about someone's sexual orientation.


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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by RobRoyal » 13 Nov 2012 21:14

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TheSiege It is good to be able to say that you have come up trumps over one of the previous seven assertions. You are right, I am 60. The rest, as usual, is finely-manicured manure! And you are going to actually say something when (by which I mean stand up and state YOUR view)? I thought not.


That's quite a bizarre response considering that I've made absolutely clear my views on at least 4 subjects in the post you've just read. But I'll try again: my view is that people who find in a thread like this one evidence of 'political correctness,' or find it relevant to reply with reference to a 'socialist' thought police, or claim not to be homophobic and yet descend on a thread about openly gay footballers and decry our lack of thought for 'the past, religion and our country', are deeply, hopelessly confused.

My view is that in a perfect world there would be no need for people to takr a stand against the persecution of or intolerance towards minority groups, but we don't live in a perfect world, and so homophobia needs to be challenged and campaigns promoting tolerance and acceptance need to be supported. My view is that you are a white man who has seldom felt part of a group subject to prejudice and intolerance, and that's why you interpret a campaign like this one as just a bunch a fags trying to dangle their sweaty balls in your face. Whereas the rest of us can see it's just some people who want to be no longer burdened by having a secret that, were it exposed, might well ruin their careers.

Have you got a sense of my view yet?


In a 'Perfect World' my friend, RFC would be in Europe and everyone on this site would be in well-paying jobs - that they enjoy, in a Country that they feel patriotic about and is safe to bring their children up in! The problem about a 'Perfect World' is that people have to stand up and get rid of the 'wrongs' to make it so! Now, perhaps, for once, you may understand what I am saying. I would like a perfect world - unfortunately, I am in a minority of 'people who actually give a damn'!


Er, no... I give a damn, which is why I... write forum posts about how the acceptance of homosexuality.

It's not going to change the world, i'll grant you that.

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Snowball » 13 Nov 2012 21:20

Daily Mail.

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Snowball » 13 Nov 2012 21:47

TheSiege To Rob_Roy and Man_Friday (should someone post whilst I am writing this and making the thread dis-jointed). I have consistently, from my first post on this thread, been talking about the liberal/socialist 'Polically Correct' nature of the thread. As I also said with my first post, the thread looks like a wind-up.

I had thought that 'Political Correctness' had been so devalued that it was slowly dying a death - a topic not really to do with football or RFC in particular but, this thread really showed that I was wrong. I will say again, with absolute accuracy, I am neither homophobic, racist, ageist, gingerist or anything else. What I am is British, patriotic and aware of the huge damage done to our country by the 'who gives a sh*t' generation, a generation taught to believe that the English are second-class citizens in a world where only the minorities are important! I must admit, I had always assumed that whichever generation it was, they would always treat rubbish like that with the contempt it deserved. I must admit, I was wrong!




Siege, your post is classic "I am not a racist, but.." language.

What is actually special about being British? We have massacred millions. We invented the concentration camp.

How can we "have immigrants"? We ARE immigrants.

Almost certainly we are descended from black stock. Then add a good dose of Roman, plenty of Viking, loads of French,
mix in (over the centuries) German, Dutch, Belgian, Italian, Irish, and, dare I say it JEWS!

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by RobRoyal » 13 Nov 2012 21:51

TheSiege To Rob_Roy and Man_Friday (should someone post whilst I am writing this and making the thread dis-jointed). I have consistently, from my first post on this thread, been talking about the liberal/socialist 'Polically Correct' nature of the thread. As I also said with my first post, the thread looks like a wind-up.

I had thought that 'Political Correctness' had been so devalued that it was slowly dying a death - a topic not really to do with football or RFC in particular but, this thread really showed that I was wrong. I will say again, with absolute accuracy, I am neither homophobic, racist, ageist, gingerist or anything else. What I am is British, patriotic and aware of the huge damage done to our country by the 'who gives a sh*t' generation, a generation taught to believe that the English are second-class citizens in a world where only the minorities are important! I must admit, I had always assumed that whichever generation it was, they would always treat rubbish like that with the contempt it deserved. I must admit, I was wrong!


I have literally no idea what you think any of this has to do with a thread where many people are expressing that they have no problem with gay footballers at Reading, which is what you'd hope for in a progressive, tolerant country like ours.

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Snowball » 13 Nov 2012 22:06

WHY is it "politically correct" to accept heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality?

Social mores evolve, that's true and once, if forums like this had been possible back then,
the "very idea" that a footballer "might be a poof or a bender" would have caused
a strong, negative, probably ridiculing, or "disgusted" reaction

But the world is a different place these days. Not everyone's knuckles still drag in the dirt.


I'm straight, my younger brother is gay. He came out (to me) 37 years ago, but couldn't come out
to my parents, because, back then, (he presumed) they would have been horrified.

I supported him but I was far happier when, eventually, after my parents died, he came out to the rest of my siblings


"Coming out" and its ramifications is complex. Yes, we have no right to know either way, and yes, an individual's
sexuality is his/her own business, but, in the case of homosexual males in particular, especially those with
"street cred" (film stars, sports stars, MPs perhaps) the issue has a deeper importance.

Clearly, homosexual soccer stars keep their homosexuality secret (or private) for fear of backlash
but they, by coming out, could do wonders for removing the "stigma" of being gay (as some closet gays might see it)

PLEASE NOTE I am not saying there IS a stigma, merely that some people may perceive it that way.

Imagine just 20 Premiership footballers came out in one weekend of news.

There would be a few jokes from knuckle-draggers, but very soon after there would be hundreds more
self-outings, and equality and decency would take a huge step forward.

One day sexuality will probably not concern us, and that's how it should be, but to pretend
it doesn't now, is simply not true.

I have no idea how many, but I feel sure there are still suicides by gay guys who simply
can't come out or face "the shame". There should be no shame, of course. We don't choose
our sexuality. But celebrities coming out takes us further down the road to tolerance and
acceptance, and eventually to a point where we don't need to tolerate or accept, it's just an irrelevance

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by Snowball » 13 Nov 2012 22:07

Rob, do you really believe we are a progressive tolerant society?

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Re: Playing on the same side? The last taboo

by harryroyal » 13 Nov 2012 22:36

Siege, you're a twat and I hope a big hairy black man severely damages your rectum.

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